hey... im confused... not sure what to think...

I called my moms social worker in the hospital where she is and was talking about the progress to get her up here (where I live) in the nursing home... I was told that she needed that level of care.

well the social worker said oh your mom is looking into a 1st floor apartment down here and trying to get inhome nursing care. woah- okay i talked to my mom yesterday night she said nothing about that. I am all for it if she does not have to be in a nursing home. but she was planning to relocate... closer to me and my brother. why the sudden change, have I been pushing her too much?

I dont know... I talked to her a little while ago... she said she didnt say anything because she didn't know if anything had changed. well telling the doctors and social worker that you WONT go to the nursing home does change things... dont get me wrong i feel for her, the stress of being sick but i am stressing with her, trying to do things to help, figure things out...

i dont know i dont mean to sound rude or anything... i know this is a lot for her, i just wish it were easier to find the answers

i guess that is it for right now.. hugs <3